Friday, April 15, 2011

Sexy Costumes - Put in a spark to your Love Life

By Aikednea Johansen


If your love life is feeling routine and the spark is threatening to fall out, breathe some fresh air into the mix through the use of sexy costumes. Regardless of whether you want to admit it or not, everybody has a fantasy. For most guys, the Farrah Fawcet in the red swimsuit fantasy is ranked right up there with the Princess Leia in the bikini fantasy. Of course, any occupation with the word "sexy" listed before it finishes out the trifecta of guy fantasies. These include sexy nurses, police officers, maids, flight attendants, pirates, as well as a lunch lady is she's sexy enough!

Women however usually have fantasies about strong, capable men. Most ladies begin drooling the moment they see anyone in uniform, including soldiers, sailors, police officers, fire fighters, or sports figures. However, ladies can become embroiled in a fantasy that entails them dressing up in a provocative outfit just as easily as men. In the end, why would any woman agree to wear a sexy costume if there was not something in it for her?

Wearing sexy costumes is nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about, as numerous couples exercise these play roles to keep their love life from becoming tired, listless, or dull. Just because you use sexy costumes in your relationship doesn't mean that you no longer want to be with your partner, that is a common misconception. Just because you have a desire to see your wife or girlfriend in a skimpy maid's outfit does not imply you have a secret wish to have sex with a maid. Rather, these fantasies allow us to cast ourselves and our loved one in a unique setting to be able to experience something different. Consider it like Halloween, but instead of candy, you get something a lot more satisfying.

There are several different variations of sexy costumes that are available for purchase. If you are getting into the idea of fulfilling a fantasy for either yourself or your partner, you might be unwilling to buy some of the more provocative costumes on the market. Consider starting out small by using accessories and accents to make a unique statement or choose a more subdued costume that is subtly sexy. Even though there are just two people in a relationship, and you may have many years of history to fall back on, there can still be embarrassment present, so be sure to speak of any concerns that may be of concern for either you or your partner.

Think about sexy costumes like lingerie or any other provocative clothing intended to get a rise out of your partner. When buying sexy costumes, you need to be sure to select a costume not only for its look, but also for its construction and materials. By purchasing a high quality costume, you are able to make sure that your partner will be able to enjoy his or her fantasy for many, many years to come. Most often, the fantasy wears out before the costume!

Additionally to putting on a sexy costume to keep your sex life jumping, think about using different areas in your home for those intimate moments. A scantily clad maid is far more convincing on the kitchen table than in the bed. Moreover, that muscle-clad mechanic will be a great deal more enjoyable in your garage to keep the fantasy realistic. Keep in mind that sexy costumes vary from person to person. What you look at sexy is most likely different that what your friends look at sexy, but fantasies are unique to each person. Make sure to support your partner with whatever fantasy tickles his or her boat and enjoy the ride!






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